February 5, 2010
August 25, 2009
Public records? for free?
shikiyatraviesa asked:
The question is, Does anyone know of an actual “free” public records website. Because I am trying to find out about a divorce, and every site I have seen it’s like: this amount for two years or blah blah blah. Please, help.
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The question is, Does anyone know of an actual “free” public records website. Because I am trying to find out about a divorce, and every site I have seen it’s like: this amount for two years or blah blah blah. Please, help.
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August 21, 2009
If a got married to a mr.smith and later found out he was a mr.kyle, would thi help me in divorce?
JoKeR asked:
I found out the ss # of the man I married was to a different name, so basically I married someone who only exists in criminal record. How would I go about to end this marriage and would this factor help out at all?
I found out the ss # of the man I married was to a different name, so basically I married someone who only exists in criminal record. How would I go about to end this marriage and would this factor help out at all?
August 2, 2009
Help! Porn found friend’s husband’s computer – they’re in the middle of a divorce?
Charlie L asked:
So, a friend is going through a divorce and has found porn on her computer, obviously there by her husband. He’s a principal of an elementary school. How can she make a record, or what should she do, to have this as backup in the divorce? He has already said that he will blame everything on her, and has threatened her with blackmail if she says anything. Your help is appreciated….
So, a friend is going through a divorce and has found porn on her computer, obviously there by her husband. He’s a principal of an elementary school. How can she make a record, or what should she do, to have this as backup in the divorce? He has already said that he will blame everything on her, and has threatened her with blackmail if she says anything. Your help is appreciated….
July 8, 2009
Divorce. How do you find out?
Donna asked:
How can you find out if someone is divorce…Is it a matter of public record..Do you need to know the state the divorce took place or town…
How can you find out if someone is divorce…Is it a matter of public record..Do you need to know the state the divorce took place or town…
July 4, 2009
My husband is currently deployed and he said he wants a divorce?
Tristan Robert Due March 20 asked:
I have no problem with that. I love him so much, and just want him to be happy, even if it isn’t with me. He told me that when he get’s back, he is taking our son with him to Japan. I am so terrified of losing my son!!! I do realize that once he is gone, it will be extremely difficult to get him back. Can he legally take him out of the country if I object? For the record, I am a good mom. Our son is very well taken care of.
I have no problem with that. I love him so much, and just want him to be happy, even if it isn’t with me. He told me that when he get’s back, he is taking our son with him to Japan. I am so terrified of losing my son!!! I do realize that once he is gone, it will be extremely difficult to get him back. Can he legally take him out of the country if I object? For the record, I am a good mom. Our son is very well taken care of.
April 19, 2009
Genealogy Public Records Information?
Serenity asked:
On a recent search on Ancestry.com, I came up with severals slightly disturbing public records. Two showed my brother’s x-wife (divorced about 17 years ago) listed with my parents, at two of her recent addresses and another showed her at their current residence. All three addresses also list someone I’ve never heard of with my family’s last name. My x-sister-in-law still uses our family name, even though she’s been married several times since she was married to my brother.
On a recent search on Ancestry.com, I came up with severals slightly disturbing public records. Two showed my brother’s x-wife (divorced about 17 years ago) listed with my parents, at two of her recent addresses and another showed her at their current residence. All three addresses also list someone I’ve never heard of with my family’s last name. My x-sister-in-law still uses our family name, even though she’s been married several times since she was married to my brother.
Just for info – the divorce was not amicable and my parents have avoided contact with her as much as possible since the divorce.
My questions are:
1. How can I find out what public records the ancestry record reflects?
2. What possible reason could there be for my parents names to be listed with hers on homes that they have never had anything to do with?
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March 19, 2009
no paper on divorce and husband never served me so what do i do cant find papers?
belneedshelpsendmeafriend asked:
i got married novmber 1986 and i never got paper of any divorce but husband says to when i ask for paper just use any date and year i have gone to hall of records and no paper if he lose his job do i get anything he’s married again please help
i got married novmber 1986 and i never got paper of any divorce but husband says to when i ask for paper just use any date and year i have gone to hall of records and no paper if he lose his job do i get anything he’s married again please help
February 18, 2009
Is he worth keeping or do I get a Divorce?
Denise P asked:
He had some sex talk on his cell with his friends wife. It was accidently recorded and I over heard it. He said it was an aweful thing and he told the woman I knew and he supposedly stopped. I run into her alot and I can’t stomach her. She also sent him a recent text about their friendship. Should I just get a Divorce? What do I do? I always feel like he is cheating. He said they never had sex. Soooooo Confused!!!!
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He had some sex talk on his cell with his friends wife. It was accidently recorded and I over heard it. He said it was an aweful thing and he told the woman I knew and he supposedly stopped. I run into her alot and I can’t stomach her. She also sent him a recent text about their friendship. Should I just get a Divorce? What do I do? I always feel like he is cheating. He said they never had sex. Soooooo Confused!!!!
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January 15, 2009
should i divorce him or not?
dangski asked:
Last month, my husband told me that he does not love or in love with me anymore.I was shocked and cant think what to say at that moment,all i did was cry and try to think what what did i do..We been married for 15 years and we have 2 kids together.. ever since he told me that he does not stay home all the time like he used to..He gets mad so easy and he want to get rid of everything that he used to love.He is 46 years old and im 37,he said he was moving out and he wants separation from me and he needs to think..So i got him a hotel to stay in for a couple of days.did not call him or nothing.for the whole week i did not eat or sleep i was so worry about our relationship..i dont want to loose him. Im still in love with after all these years..I ask him if theres someone else, he said no,he just need some space..but my guts is telling me that keeping some thing from me.So i looked at our telephone records and checked all the numbers that is calling him and the number he frequently calls..sure enough i found 1 that calls him almost 10 times a day..so i asked him about it,he said it was a co workers number,they just talk cause this person has a problem i said ok.Few days passed same number is calling him early in the morning and late at night,for about 15 to 45 minutes. I was curious,so i called the number, woman answered the call so i hung up.I told him again about it, he said maybe the daugther of my co worker answered my call. So i said oh ok.But the feeling inside me is telling me differently,I know he is lying and when hes phone would ring he would go outside or in the bedroom and shut the door before he answer it.I confronted him about it,He got all mad telling me to leave his friends alone.but i cant stand the lie..we argued about it..telling me that every thing was my fault,i feel so guilty afterwards,i cried. whenever he off from work he would tell our daugther that he staying at a friends house,he rarely stay home now.I do not call him cause i know hes not gonna anwer my call..I was so worried about him.and whenever i tried to talk to him about trying to work things out..he always bring up all the stuff that happens in the past,we only have 2 big fights in our 15 years of marriage.I enrolled myself to the gym hope it would help me a little bit.
He always tell me that theres no one else,she just friend whos going through the same thing..i suggested to him to go ahead and get an apartment,cause i every time i see him i get this pain in my heart and i cried.I did not know what to do,he wont even let me touch him.As far as my kids they knew whats going on,they are 14 and 13.I have ask them about it ,they did not want us to get divorce.I dont want either..I love my husband very much,i cant even imagine or think being with another man.I accept him cheating on me but the lies, its killing me inside cause he was not like that.We suppose to file a divorce next week ,he said he would pay for it{uncontested} cause we both agree on a chid support and the house will be transfer to my name..He said he want us to be friends not enemy for the sake of the kids.
It was our 16 year anniversary yesterday,i bought him a card and gave it to him but i dont think he even red the card.He did not say anything..I am so confused,i ask him if he wants to go see a therapist,he said no.seems like he does not want to work thing out,so today i told him instead of paying the lawyer for a divorce ,get an apartment cause he wants to file for divorce first and then leave the house when its final and it would take 2 to 3months.i dont want to feel this feelings to continue for the next 3 months i want it to go away,i lost a lot of weight already . please any advice soon!!!
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Last month, my husband told me that he does not love or in love with me anymore.I was shocked and cant think what to say at that moment,all i did was cry and try to think what what did i do..We been married for 15 years and we have 2 kids together.. ever since he told me that he does not stay home all the time like he used to..He gets mad so easy and he want to get rid of everything that he used to love.He is 46 years old and im 37,he said he was moving out and he wants separation from me and he needs to think..So i got him a hotel to stay in for a couple of days.did not call him or nothing.for the whole week i did not eat or sleep i was so worry about our relationship..i dont want to loose him. Im still in love with after all these years..I ask him if theres someone else, he said no,he just need some space..but my guts is telling me that keeping some thing from me.So i looked at our telephone records and checked all the numbers that is calling him and the number he frequently calls..sure enough i found 1 that calls him almost 10 times a day..so i asked him about it,he said it was a co workers number,they just talk cause this person has a problem i said ok.Few days passed same number is calling him early in the morning and late at night,for about 15 to 45 minutes. I was curious,so i called the number, woman answered the call so i hung up.I told him again about it, he said maybe the daugther of my co worker answered my call. So i said oh ok.But the feeling inside me is telling me differently,I know he is lying and when hes phone would ring he would go outside or in the bedroom and shut the door before he answer it.I confronted him about it,He got all mad telling me to leave his friends alone.but i cant stand the lie..we argued about it..telling me that every thing was my fault,i feel so guilty afterwards,i cried. whenever he off from work he would tell our daugther that he staying at a friends house,he rarely stay home now.I do not call him cause i know hes not gonna anwer my call..I was so worried about him.and whenever i tried to talk to him about trying to work things out..he always bring up all the stuff that happens in the past,we only have 2 big fights in our 15 years of marriage.I enrolled myself to the gym hope it would help me a little bit.
He always tell me that theres no one else,she just friend whos going through the same thing..i suggested to him to go ahead and get an apartment,cause i every time i see him i get this pain in my heart and i cried.I did not know what to do,he wont even let me touch him.As far as my kids they knew whats going on,they are 14 and 13.I have ask them about it ,they did not want us to get divorce.I dont want either..I love my husband very much,i cant even imagine or think being with another man.I accept him cheating on me but the lies, its killing me inside cause he was not like that.We suppose to file a divorce next week ,he said he would pay for it{uncontested} cause we both agree on a chid support and the house will be transfer to my name..He said he want us to be friends not enemy for the sake of the kids.
It was our 16 year anniversary yesterday,i bought him a card and gave it to him but i dont think he even red the card.He did not say anything..I am so confused,i ask him if he wants to go see a therapist,he said no.seems like he does not want to work thing out,so today i told him instead of paying the lawyer for a divorce ,get an apartment cause he wants to file for divorce first and then leave the house when its final and it would take 2 to 3months.i dont want to feel this feelings to continue for the next 3 months i want it to go away,i lost a lot of weight already . please any advice soon!!!
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